Love

A parent’s unconditional love.

Something that all us humans can imagine. Seeing a small, helpless little person in your arms. Looking at them, holding out your arms to them, holding them, literally, knowing that on you they depend, body, mind, soul.

They are lots and lots of labour.

But, few people will shirk this labour of love. That is a fact.

Of course, some do, as a choice. And, there are those who abuse children. A crime if there was ever one. Universally ugly. Very ugly.

We gay people, we are also human being. We also love to have children, to have that unconditional love given and taken. It is tough, we know it. But, we move heaven and earth to do something as simple as getting children. And, loving them.

No, we are not pedophiles. We are not evil. We are just simple human beings, with the same needs for love, understanding, same desires to see ourselves in another, a child, our own. Maybe adopted, maybe not.

Of course we do know that we cannot have children with gay sex. And, some accuse us, and devile us because of that. It is ‘sterile’ they say, forgetting that we are not sterile. And that no fertility tests are done before marriage. Heterosexual marriage.

They forget that making love is not about sex. Especially the love that dares not speak its name (uh, Wildey, did America swallow you up? Where are you?!) It has to be bigger, deeper, stronger. Because it doesn’t have social supports.

But, they (as in those who think us evil), they believe we should also not have children. We shouldn’t adopt too.

Ugly, ugly, ugly.

And know the real reason we will always win? The real dark agenda that is the homosexual’s secret? It is actually very simple.

We, we gay people, homosexuals, we are also human.

And, those who hate us will always fail to prove our inhumanity. Because we are also human.

Hang in there everyone. Be well and keep up the fight.

If you are gay, remember that thing that you have. You are a human being. Only you can take that conviction, that self knowledge away from you. And yes, you can do it. So don’t. Do NOT hurt yourself. Don’t think of yourself as less than human. That is the whole trick, that is the whole secret. That is why the Ssempa’s of this world try to convince your world that you are not HUMAN.

But, we are also human. With the gifts and faults that means.

Have a great day.

gug